Help me I need to pass time

[20yearsstolen]

I discovered this morning that my partner isn't at work he's in a hotel with another woman . He's still not home he doesn't know I know and has his phone turned off .
I know it's the devil but I've also discovered other messages on Facebook from other women saying there sorry but there going to give there relationship another go. I have no idea how many women there are .

Now I'm here with my three year old in bed waiting :( I'm going crazy !
I don't want to rant at the other women they are welcome to him . I am just going stir crazy trying to pass the time ..

Pack him a bag & leave it on the doorstep then lock yourself in the house but please don't leave.

Hope you are ok 20. Ditto what others have said, lock the doors, leave the key in. Call 101 and tell them your partner is due home and you are scared and might dial 999.

You do not need to put up with this sort of shit.

Probably too late, but e-mail screen shots to yourself or a relative or friend if you can.

I hope you will be ok.

Make sure you have your phone with you at all times.

Remember he is in the wrong.

I'm really sorry you are in this situation.

Remember though, it's he who decided to ruin the marriage, not you.

If you are scared, lock the doors and call the police.

If you are just concerned, let him rant and do whatever. Go to family or friends if you can and then sort out somewhere for you to stay a little more permenantly.

Take all that you are legally allowed to and access evidence of his infidelity for the divorce proceedings. Also, make sure your money if you are still paying for the mortgage is withdrawn, as you no longer will be living at the address.

Hugs here from a very concerned stranger.

I hope you are ok 20.

Just read. Hope you're ok. You should be the one getting angry. I hope you free yourself soon

Hope you are ok. If he is not home yet, is there anyone close by that could come round to be with you when he arrives? It sounds as though he is quite aggressive and this may defuse the situation at least giving you time to get your head together. And yes yes yes to gathering evidence - make sure you make copies of everything.

Are you ok op??

I am also hoping you are okay.

Hoping OP is ok.