I'm basically posting on here because I'm annoyed and upset and trying to make sure I don't text or call my ex!
He usually looks after DS who is 2 on a Tuesday while I'm at work. This week he told me he couldn't because he had a job interview. I was really happy - he runs his own business with some other people and gives me no money as says the business isn't making money. So I thought, great, he is finally going to come good and top up his income. I put DS in for an extra day at nursery and paid the 50 quid myself.
On Sunday I tried to call him, he text back and said he had gone to job interview (up north) early as they had some work for him in the meantime. Sounded strange to me. On Monday I iMessaged him and asked him to call me, and the message just sat there not delivering. Then at 1am today it delivered and he messaged saying had just got back from the interview and would ring today.
When he rang I spoke to him about what I needed to and then just said, you haven't been to a job interview have you? He said he had. I said I know for a fact you have been out of the country (totally bluffing - I hadn't a clue) and he admitted it, got annoyed and said he was having a tough time and had gone on his own, and he would call me tomorrow morning and explain. Oh and he said he did go to the job interview aswell!!
I'm just so annoyed - how dare he pay nothing towards his son and pay for holidays abroad! And I just hate the lies - it's all I got when we were together. (He left me for OW in the end which was my fault as I moaned about him not earning any money all the time).
Anyway, needed to vent as I know I need to not call him back now but I keep thinking of things to say and other reasons I'm annoyed about this!