So been with DP for 2 years, I'm not stupid and get in the begining you at it like rabbits and then it dies down a little but for past year it's died down a lot and DP is always either to drunk, to hung over, to tired or to ill for sex! Now I'm 34 (birthday yesterday) and have huge sex drive, I love sex and always found it so easy to get off even with the serious lack of foreplay (DP doesn't ever seem to do foreplay) he is 37 I should add!
Anyway for my birthday yesterday I had this jokey card about 69 in the hotel room, and DP took my to a amazing 5* spa hotel, spent morning in spa had treatments then in arvo DP suggest we go back to room for hour for a lie down, I presumed he meant for fun, So we get back take off our wet swim stuff and jump into bed glass a glass of bubbly I slide across bed and slide hand down under covers and just get totally blown off with a " Hun I'm tired I didn't sleep well last night need a power nap you will have to wait till tonight' so I let it go chill out watch a bit of tv before we went back to spa for rest of arvo!
So then last night we go to the amazing rosette winning resturant have champagne and amazing meal, eat a lot and while eating DP mentions he is so full and shattered I will have to wait until morning for birthday sex..... So I just mentioned in a jokey way how I presumed earlier when we went back to room that it might of been for birthday sex and couldn't believe I had been knocked back, we both just laughed about it him saying no I was tired and you know I get bored laying around pools etc so just wanted to go bavk for a nap etc so anyway it's was left on a good jokey laughing note and we carried on our meal with him continuing to mention how shattered he was etc
So we get back to room and I ask him to un zip my dress he does while taking of his trousers saying shall I just stick it in a second? I respond with " don't I even get a kissfirst" and he give me one quick kiss on the lips while falling onto the bed and sticks it stright in, after about 2 mins of sex he gets up saying sorry will have to wait I'm going to chuck up!!! So that's that and we go to bed!
Wake this morning and I slide over for a cuddle to be told straight away that he is tired and had a shit nights sleep! So he then gets up and decided to go for a swim, as soon as he leaves I just bust into tears feel do shit!!!! We spent the day/night in a amazing hotel for my birthday and I didn't even get sex!
I know compared to some things on here this is nothing but it's getting me down, i honestly feel shit, unattractive and unwanted I honestly can't remember the last time we went to bed and just had sex before sleep or the last time I didn't get turned down when I tired it on!