I'm new & feeling blue.

[twoboysundertwo]

background- married 1 year with two DSs under two. in August my 'friend' came round for a catch up and a playdate and while having a cuppa she dropped the bombshell that her and hubby had kissed & cuddled after a night out...while I lay sleeping upstairs!
WHO DOES THAT!?
I no longer speak to the group of friends we shared so feeling a bit lonely.
hubby and I are trying to work this out after we separated for a few weeks.
I am now insanely jealous, paranoid and my self confidence is shot to pieces.

would just like a friendly word- a lot to deal with when your 21, I feel 80!

Married, 2 kids and adultery all under your belt by the age of 21, any wonder you feek older than your years!

There are lots of people here who can give you lots of amazing advice, but for now, tonight, mine is be kind to yourself, reach out to the friends you can trust and keel talking, you have many an ear here x

That would make me kick him out for good, OP. If he was prepared to kiss - and what else? - when you were upstairs, then he has absolutely no respect for you. As for her, she's a skank.

Evening OP, Am just off to bed but wanted to say no wonder you are having a wobble. Its better to have 1 or 2 good friends than a group like that.
I would suggest that you go and have some counselling that way you will have someone you can get it all out to without feeling you are moaning to mates.
Also keep talking to your H, he has to realise the part he has played in your state of mind.
Be kind to yourself and look after yourself.