DP has a long history of hurting me and straying. We split up a few years ago as I had had enough. After six months and a lot of changes we gave it one last try.
Fast forward a year and I have discovered that he has been messaging younger women on facebook and has arranged a date tonight after work with one of the women. I have pictures of messages.
From the messages I don't think anyone he works with know he is in a relationship. I tested him on Wednesday and sent him a relationship request on facebook and he removed himself completely, 20 minutes later saying a friend had put midget porn on his wall and he was frightened his boss would see.
Roll forward to tonight and i have work and dd is being looked after by her grandmother until dp comes home. He hasn't mentioned anything about being late so i am waiting to see if he comes back late.
Even if he doesn't go, I am done. There is no trust, I feel he has broken me and taken away any confidence I had.
Sorry to ramble, but how do I confront him with it?!