Yes, another vague title......just ignoreifyouwant..but I HATE MY HUSBAND

[noslimbody]

He drive me around the bloody twist
too pissed off to even talk about it much
but today he has:
treated one ds with favouritism, so I texted him(he is downstairs, I am upstairs with teething two year old) to give ds3 the same snack he allowed ds1. He told me to "stop interfering" [hmmm]
shouted over my voice and walked away when I complained about his behaviour
shouted at me 5 minutes into my bath (he was watching kids) whether I have finished yet - this is a regular occurrence.
Had to get that out.....thanks for reading..

What do you want to do? Do you just need to vent? Do you want to improve things between you or do you want to end it?

If the level of sniping above is a typical day then your relationship has big problems. If you hate your husband, he doesn't appear to like or respect you very much either. Your poor DCs will be picking up on the chronic aggravation and it won't make for a happy childhood. Do you have anyone IRL that you can talk to?

You sound controlling tbh - you text him from upstairs telling him how to parent. You then go to give him a disciplinary "complain about his behaviour" and are surprised when he rejects it (I wonder how that complaint was approached, btw - as a team wanting to calmly discuss an issue, or as a primary parent telling him off?)

Sorry but nobody would shout at me like that, apart from disrespecting you, it's not showing your kids a good example of a happy couple. All the children should be treated the same, simple as that. I would say he is the controlling one, not you.