exs

[Pizzahutlover]

Why do exs come back to ruin your relationship and try get you back but when you were with them they treatedyou with very little respect. Feel really confused and upset by it all married with two lovely kids but my ex keeps following me but has now stopped and has spoken to me asking about my status and stuff. See him sometimes which upsets me as i do still care about him but dont really know what to do about it. Just want to feel normal and get on with my life without thinking about my past but find it difficult when i see him. Could you please give me advice as i feel abit confused. He has come infront of my husband as well and was clearly trying to piss him off as he was just standing their staring at me. Really need some advice

If you feel you are being harassed, then contact the police.

I suspect he doesn't like that he doesn't control you any longer and is trying to mind fuck with you.

Yes he is feel he is controling me now despite the fact he is know longer with me. When he was with me used to leave me sometimes for a few weeks to few months he kind of conditioned me to expect it. I cared for him but was young didnt know any better.

Quite soft person soo take alot but sometimes it gets too much and feel terrible and start thinking about things and just upsets me more.

Tell him straight you are not interested and that you will call the police if he doesn't back off. He sees you as fair game as you are still talking to him.

Do you really want to jeopardise your family unit for this total wanker who treated you like shit? Seriously wake up before he/ you do some damage.

The fact he has stood in front of your husband, trying to wind him up shows that he has no respect for you, he doesn't love you, he sees you as an object to take back as you are happy with some one else. Don't kid your self he has feelings for you.

I have done what your thinking of doing, although I didn't have a DH or kids then, ex got what he wanted, me ruining my relationship with a lovely guy and he got a few fucks before he grew tired of me again.

No man would ever come between me and DH as I simply would never allow it.

You need to reassess your life with DH and kids.

No i dont talk to him its all eyes and body language. Spoke to him once but he followed me and started talking to me but saw i was uncomfortable so left. After that he followed me for awhile

Kick him off facebook. He is not your friend, he treated you horribly.

You going to have to grow a back bone and tell him to fuck off -and mean it.

Don't look at him, look through him. He hasn't got any power or control of you, your a grown woman, wife and mother.

would you really put this man over your husband and kids??

Thanks humphry i came on here for that kind of advice he has not got in the way of our relationship we are fine but by doing that staring infront of my husband did cause us to fight abit but was not my fault. Think im starting to see the light so thanks for that and no not thinking of doing anything with him. I do care for him but left him myself as i was not happy so know ill only go back into that situation again so no point

No in supermarket not facebook

No i would not love my kids and husband but think he has fucked my head up abit by following me while i do shopping and talking me and staring at me in front of husband and even when my husband is not their

Men like that need to come with a tattoo on their forehead stating 'I'm a complete fucktard!'

We where together two years but i was very young did not choose to be in the relationship it just sort of happened

I dumped him as he was not always therr but he did not take it well

Yes he left with no contact but would then come back as if nothing had happened. Our relationship was around 7- 8 years ago but he still bothering me till now