Me and my fiancé have been together for 11 years lived together for 5 and have a 9 month old, we've always had a relationship where I felt I was always more interested than him... Anyways lately we've been having such horrible arguments and have come to a dissension that we have both lost respect for each other, these arguments get so bad i carnt bare to look at him and it takes me a few days to like him again! we've agreed I'll stay at home with little one until she's about 2 so at first we had horrid arguments about the house work and he said I wasn't doing enough even tho I was a new mom at home trying my best, arguments about sex ... Yes I agree its rare but I'm just not interested. I've said I'll leave a few times ...apart of me really wants to go and see if I miss him and I might run back after a day and a part of me is worried ill like it! He is happy to stay together for sake of little one but is this always right? Have we run our course or are we a typical ' new parents ' when were good were good but when were bad were bad..... There are times at night when baby in bed I go upstairs for night and he stays down stairs, he doesn't get up in night last night she was up for 3 hrs and he never even heard her or me huffing around. He always throws the ' I go to work comment at me' I carnt see a further sometimes .....