Dumped at 7 months pregnant!

[Mummy2014]

Well long story short, I'm 7 months pregnant & my delightful fiancé left me this week! His reasons - things aren't the same as they used to be (no sh1t shirlock!!)

I'm not having the best of pregnancies, 1 illness seems to follow another & prior to being pregnant I was running half marathons each week & weight lifting - all this has had to stop & so I feel bigger than what I actually am.

28 weeks & gained 17lbs - is this normal? I guess I'm worrying he went off me seeing as I'm getting bigger - which obviously is normal!!

Any who, I think I'm here just to have a general whinge & a moan!

Feeling lonely (night times are always the worst!) and worrying what he's getting upto seeing as it's a Saturday night!

My family & friends are being awesome, but it's just not the same as having the person you planned this with by your side xx

Wow sorry to hear your ex is such an arse!

17lbs isn't a lot, I put on 3 stone when I was pregnant.

I doubt that he went off You because you put on weight due to carrying his child, and if he did then he's a complete fool as pregnant women do put weight on.

My dds dad was crap when I was pregnant and I spent most of it alone so I know how lonely it can be.

How long were you together? And you said you had planned the baby? Xx

What an arse. The realisation of a baby has hit him and he has done a runner.
What an idiot he is.
I don't have any experience of this but feel free to moan away :)

Yeah the baby was planned. We have been together 2 years. We were so excited when I fell pregnant, talking about the future, feeling the baby kicking, being excited to meet him / her - and now, I barely hear from
Him.
He's made it 100% clear that we are over - I'd love to know what I've done wrong :(

It doesn't help that he's the first person I have see go early & truly loved, he was the love of my life - so dealing with beig pregnant & a break up all in one is pretty much more than I can handle :-/ xx

You've done nothing wrong and I'm sorry this has happened to you and in such a cruel way. Whatever's changed it's entirely centred around some selfish reason of his. And I'm sorry but 'things aren't the same' is so often code for 'I've met someone else' that it's practically a cliche.

Make full use of your RL support, look after yourself and try to stay busy. He isn't worth a candle.