This is probably going to sound petty but for some reason I am really annoyed. Basically I just don't understand why DP seems to want to spanner in the works. Anytime I make a suggestion he comes up with reasons why I/we should not do it. Latest thing is I want to buy a kitten have always wanted a fluffy "james bond cat" if you know the one I mean, I am paying for it and I will look after it, I was really excited. But DP is coming up with all the reason why I should not get it, "it will leave hairs everywhere", err well you would not know one end of the hoover to the other, "what will happen when we go on holiday" ( err it will go to the cattery),( which I will pay for). I suppose what makes it worse if that every animal we have he has gone out and got, without even discussing it, we have a little dog, but I am the one who looks after her, takes her for walks, buys her food. When I bought a lovely Highland terrier many years ago( which discussed with him pre getting it) he moaned so much about her that I had to get her rehoused. I am getting the cat regardless but he has spoilt the experience. I know it sound silly but I just don't get why he reacts like this.