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Is it just men that seem to like anal sex or do women too?

128 replies

Panthering · 11/10/2013 06:12

I am on a bit of a quest.....

I really love anal sex and it gives me a totally different orgasm to other types.... However I feel I am the only woman on the planet that does...?

All my girlfriends say they maybe have tried it/ don't like it/ partner doesn't like it etc which left me thinking is it just me.... Am I just a bit wierd in my tastes?

So I'd love to know what people think about this?

It makes sense to me as there is so much you can do with it, great if you have a period, problems post childbirth etc....

Thankyou!!!...

OP posts:
cherryblossoming · 12/10/2013 10:08

Anteanal/postanal depression Grin

GuybrushThreepwoodMP · 12/10/2013 10:22
Grin
Golferman · 12/10/2013 13:39

It can be fun but not particularly attractive when your knob comes out looking like a half-melted Magnum...

Wideboy · 12/10/2013 14:54

We had to discontinue the practice when my wife had a panproctectomy.

Wideboy · 12/10/2013 15:00

No, not a panproctectomy - a panproctocolectomy.

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 12/10/2013 15:18

Was that at same time as your lobotomy

UriGHOULer · 12/10/2013 15:34

Golferman wouldn't you say that a shitty knob was..(wait for it...)....
par for the course ??

GhastlyMoiraKroesig · 12/10/2013 15:51

Where do all you lot spring from?

Faaaack off back to your Renault Megane forums or from whence you came. And fiddle with your own chalconts if you want some banal/anal fun.

SoleSource · 12/10/2013 17:32

Another banal anal thread yawn

Strumpetron · 13/10/2013 01:21

Done properly, it's amazing.

joanofarchitrave · 13/10/2013 01:37

I absolutely hate it but of course when I have my period I think first about what my husband needs, and that obviously is an orifice that isn't bleeding. Or not beforehand, anyway.

coldwinter · 13/10/2013 02:21

Joan - what about you and what you need?

coldwinter · 13/10/2013 02:23

OP - men have a prostate gland that is placed so that anal sex is very sexually stimulating to them. Women are sexually stimulated by their clitoris. So men's bodies are actually designed to enjoy being penetrated for anal sex, more than women's

brokenhearted55 · 13/10/2013 02:29

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joanofarchitrave · 13/10/2013 02:45

oh sorry that was meant to be a joky response to the OP!

Thants · 13/10/2013 02:49

Joanofarch your husband doesn't need sex, your periods should not be an inconvenience to him. If you don't like anal sex don't do it! You are a person not an orifice. Only have sex when you want to, it should be about mutual pleasure.

Swissmissmimi · 22/10/2013 19:19

Some women do enjoy anal sex. I tried it before, hated it, but then tried it with my new partner and enjoy it occasionally.

It is a different feeling and mostly i prefer "normal" sex, but it can be nice to spice things up. Each to their own, I say.

Making out people are deviant because of trying different things is a bit small minded in my opinion. I am not a troll, a weirdo or anything else....just open to different things. My OH doesn't push me to do it, in fact I tend to suggest it.

AKissIsNotAContract · 22/10/2013 19:39

Period bumsex?! What about period poo? Not a good idea

Wellwobbly · 22/10/2013 19:41

ffffffft.

Hopefully MNHQ will come along and delete this

Swissmissmimi · 22/10/2013 19:50

Why delete it? It's an open forum? I'm a mummy and I'm just giving an honest opinion? Where I live it's not illegal....

ColderThanAWitchsTitty · 22/10/2013 20:11

I was petrified of pooing post child birth. I'd have ripped dh's balls off and shoved them up his bum if he thought anal was a really great thing to suggest then..

Me thinks you have got some hairy poo stained hands op

kaylee793 · 25/10/2013 22:39

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lurkinglorna · 25/10/2013 22:45

paul dacre is that you?

BuzzardBirdBloodBath · 26/10/2013 20:22

I guess if your dh has an I credibly small penis it wouldn't be much of a problem Hmm?

AKissIsNotAContract · 26/10/2013 20:42

Why would the penis need to be incredibly small? As long as its the the size of a poo it'll fit.