Was going to change my name for this but don't really see the point - plus, knowing me, i'd go and give myself away anyway!
I suspected a few weeks ago that my DP was ringing premium rate telephone numbers - we had got in from a night out, i had gone to bed but left the bedroom door open. When i woke up the door had been pulled to so i knew there was something fishy going on.
I just laid there waiting to try and hear what was going then all of a sudden heard the dial tone of our telephone - as if he had hit loudspeaker by mistake.
I didn't say anything about it as i didn't want to cause an arguement for no reason.
This morning the BT bill arrived, i grabbed it before DP saw it and stuffed in my jacket. Now at work have opened it and found 3 premium rate calls and 4 national rate calls and from the dates i can see that one of the calls what made on the night i suspected.
Now what do i do? ?
Thinking rationally there are only 7 calls in total and the longest call only lasts 3 minutes but how long has this been going on for? i don't know as i only thought to check the bill when i suspected something odd was going on.
I know if i confront him about it he will deny it at first and and say it must be BT - if i go on for long enough i think he will admit it in the end but it will cause a huge row.
He is obviously doing it to pleasure himself - the pleasuring i don't have a problem with, most times it saves me a job but why be so deceitful (sp) and close the bedroom door up and why feel the need to ring Premium Rate numbers to get off on.
We have got our 20 week scan today so really don't want to cause an arguement as we should be happy today but i just don't know what to do!