Yes.
My husband and I went from honeymoon to .. well, he changed after the honeymoon. My heart sank when he walked in the door and I did anything I could to avoid him within two years. We only stayed together for the kid.
He stonewalled me ALL the time, he put me down a lot, he created an untold amount of needless work by screwing thigns up (eg he tried to clear the hair out of the shower and broke the pipe underneath, which means taking out the whole damn shower and basin to get it) ... it was ... awful. Went out with his mates 4 days a week. I was very weak after a difficult pregnancy and he was no help - quite the opposite. I longed to get away. If anything needed doing, I just ignored him and did as much as I could myself. He'd complain we never did anythign together. that was becuase the last thing I wanted to do was spend time with him.
I too could be overbearing at times, specially when he was doing something plain stupid. Also, now and then I can be unreasonable and emotional cough
What changed? I think he realised how much I didnt want to be near or see him. He did love me and he was shocked to realise how bad things were. At that point I didnt even want to try, but wearily began yet again for the sake of our 2 year old. It wasn't always easy for him, he had to begin to try to be thoughtful and to try not to always put me down and to discuss, not just say 'nah, that's crap' all the time. But slowly, he did learn to change. He learned how to put things more constructively, so instead of 'no' he'd say, 'ok, I don't feel the same, where can we meet in the middle' or sometimes 'alright, I don't agree but we'll do it your way'. I observed, not very enthusiastically, but after about a year of him trying, I simply had to begin to try more genuinely myself. Now it's 2 further years on and I have to say, he has earned respect back. He has tried so so so hard, and it's been very difficult. I think it's getting easier, and he has learned that if he isnt so inflexible, then its easier for me to give way too. It doesnt always have to be his way or mine, we give and take now. It still takes a conscious effort not to respond if one of us slips or has a bad day, or we bicker, but after a short time we try to speak more calmly. We still don't do a huge amount together (partly becuase I'm sick again - and this time he is being an absolute hero) but we do do more, and we simply chat more and are more companionable.
I do feel ahem that the main problem was mostly him in this case. Perhaps naturally I'd say that, but even stepping back rationally and considering actual events and such like, I still think the problem was mostly him, and a bit me; and its mostly him who has changed, and worked on changing. A bit me, too =) The main thing for me was that I had to be open to try again, which after a lot of effort previously on my part which came to nothing, I was kind of ...not interested. Though it was so much easier once he became more talkable-to.
I like him again, and I've learned to love him again. And he feels more valued and appreciated and loved.
So yes, it's possible. But it takes self control, honesty, and effort, and real willingness to try.