I don't really get on that well with my inlaws (see here for a brief intro into why), but I can't seem to just shrug my shoulders, think oh well, and get on with my life. It is really getting me down, I feel so bitter and resentful about it all. It doesn't help that there always seem to be new issues/fights coming up (between DH and his siblings mainly, I try to stay out of it). Those of you who've had similar problems, how did you get over it and move on? Right now I feel dragged further and further down and I don't know how to detach myself from it all and stay afloat.