I left him two years ago, and we have teenage children together. He lives in the house we own, I pay the mortgage on it (for reasons which will become clear).
He always blamed me for the fact we have no money. Since I left despite having to furnish a rental property, paying rent and a (admittedly small) mortgage, I have managed to build up a reasonable amount of savings.
He, on the other hand, has given up work and accrued a significant amount of debt. He now has no telephone line as he didn't pay it, and may well have his electricity cut off soon. He says 'something will happen' and does nothing, expecting life to come to him.
I plan to pay off the remaining mortgage with my savings, as one of his creditors is the same as our mortgage company and they have a clause that could cause us problems.
But what do I do about him? I'm not going to try and sort out his situation. I don't have the time for one thing, and I spent a good few years sorting out issues of his making. But should I get in touch with his sister, who lives a long way away, and is full of her own ideas of how life should be? Are there any agencies out there that help single people with no diagnosed issues? The kids are worried about him and I don't want to do nothing.