How do you know when its properly over?!

[meanmutha]

Hello new mnetter on board!
Just getting to end of tether with My dp...
Got to think of three kids (1,3,6)
too.
It's so easy to feel trapped and alone.
Any ideas as to the answer to my question?!

Hi meanmutha-welcome to mumsnet.

Would you like to talk about what's troubling you?

You kind of need to give more info... what's he done? (or not been doing)

Kiddies make it harder - know that personally. Also you'd need to know where you'd go or if he'd have to etc.

Sorry not more help.

when you cant spend more than 5 minutes in a room together without wishing he was not there.

if this is the decision you have reached then you need to sit down and discuss it. it is important to be as amicable as you can.

D you think he feels the same? it may be something that after a good airing of views can be sorted.

We really need a few more details to give some proper advice though

Generally - when you constantly think how the atmosphere in the house is negatively affecting your children.

When you don't want to be in the same house, let alone the same room, as your partner.

Hello again & thanks..
Well he's a bit of a jeckll n hyde really..
We do need to talk a lot. It just seems so tiring..
We both want the best for the children.
I'll get back on this later as we should talk..