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kelly21 · 30/09/2013 13:00

i had to ring the police on my bf last night it was his birthday i tried to make it nice he was in a foul mood so i left him to it and went to watch telly in bed i heard him banging about packing his stuff ( he dosnt live with me just been staying ) i said are you going he said yes i want my bank card now he gave me it 2 days ago because he took £60 that i was saving for the argos 3 for 2 for my daughter but promised i could get it thismorinig so i relised he had planned all along to not give me it back i said no i want my money and he hit me and stood on my glasses :( i cant see without them i am just so sad all he is intetestef in is money and drugs i just wanted to give him a normal family lifei am 24 weeks pregnant i have just had a call off the police strongly advicing me to stay away from him they couldnt give me any details but he has a criminal record and has also bern lying about his age i am just so messed up and confused

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coffeewineandchocolate · 30/09/2013 13:08

Take their advice! Get in touch with the local police dvu for support and they may be able to arrange a lock change if you are worried that he has a key. When you contact the police they have a duty to inform social services if children were present or the victim is present. Don't worry about this as if you are acting protectively by ending the relationship they are unlikely to become involved unless you ask for support. Lastly speak to your midwife- she may be able to sign post you to support groups in your area or just offer you some one to one support!

CogitoErgoSometimes · 30/09/2013 13:12

I'm sorry you've experienced such terrible abuse and I think you've done the right thing getting the police involved. That took courage. You can't give this man a normal family life because he's dysfunctional. Do listen to the police. Do you have any friends or family that you can talk to about this? Would anyone come and stay with you?

Stay safe.

kelly21 · 30/09/2013 13:20

thankyou its just so hard i love his nice side but i know thats not really him luckily i am very close to my mum me and my daughter have come to stay here for a week or so while i try and sort my head out

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