Bit of background, I am divorced from ex for 3 years, due to his violence,drinking and gambling. It was only after he left (kicked out)I found out he had been having an affair with his ex wife starting before our 3rd child was born. I also found out he had been gambling thousands secretly in stocks and shares lost everything. I have had to have house repossessed and still owe £100000. At the time of divorce my dad was helping me and the house was signed over to me with huge mortgage but I thought I could downsize until hs2 came along and devalued house and I had to have it repossessed as my dad was diagnosed with terminal cancer and has since died.
I am in a rented house in same small village kids at very small school. I have heard that he is moving her and her kids into his house which is fine, except the kids said they are looking at houses very close to me which would mean her children would be going to same school. I just don't think I can handle seeing her there everyday. They both have been such a destructive force in my life and they have a very entitled attitude. I am in a relationship but he is currently working abroad as I have so much debt that any future plans ie mortgage will fall on him as I can't have a mortgage again thanks to ex
I know what she's getting into as he has not changed, he fits profile of a sociopath. He bankrupted her and attacked her when they divorced!
I can live with her being there just not on my patch so to speak! I also have adhd/aspergers which does not help. I actually feel mentally scarred by ex and hate that to some extent he still controls my life through the children. Help!