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Inconsiderate or am I overreacting?

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RhubarbMustard · 21/09/2013 07:41

So far this morning dh has woken up at 5am, woke me up going to loo, looking at phone etc. I had trouble going back to sleep, but I think I managed for a while until he got up, switched main light on and seemed incredulous to me being pissed off at that. He then couldn't find something downstairs so shouting and slamming drawers then started. All this before 715am. Am seriously pissed off with him now which will, in his head, be totally unreasonable. Supposed to be going out for day, but I'm knackered and feeling bloody murderous towards him at the moment.

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CogitoErgoSometimes · 21/09/2013 07:48

Yes, it's inconsiderate. Surprised you need to ask

Numberlock · 21/09/2013 07:49

Ear plugs and face mask.

anon2013 · 21/09/2013 08:00

The turning on of the bedroom light drives me mental when my OH ddoes that. Tell him off but don't let it spoil your day.

thistlelicker · 21/09/2013 08:02

LTb GrinWink

RhubarbMustard · 21/09/2013 08:06

Thistleliker, in my sleep deprived state, yours seems the only reasonable advice ??

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LemonDrizzled · 21/09/2013 08:13

Inconsiderate. Is this a one off or part of a pattern of behaviour?

CailinDana · 21/09/2013 08:19

It's the shouting and slamming doors that worries me. Although overall it sounds like he was "punishing" you for being asleep - was he?

mammadiggingdeep · 21/09/2013 08:55

Really rude of him. Why would you put a main light on when someone's in bed?? He acted as if he thought you should have been up too.
Is he inconsiderate on other ways? Is this a one off?

Hassled · 21/09/2013 08:56

Ah - the arrogance of someone who feels that because they are awake, everyone who is still asleep is somehow weak.

Offred · 21/09/2013 09:27

Yes very inconsiderate. Worrying you need to ask.

Lweji · 21/09/2013 09:28

Tell him in no uncertain terms that he'll be sleeping alone if this ever happens again.

Anniegetyourgun · 21/09/2013 09:40

The estimable Hullygully's advice in situations like this is to kill him. Sounds like a plan to me.

Oh, er, in a non-violent way of course

KatieScarlett2833 · 22/09/2013 09:50

DH did this a fortnight ago. He will never, ever do it again after the discussion we had the next day.

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