Hi. Sometimes I get very cross with my children. I shouted at my daughter today because she took my dustpan and brush outside and swept up a lot of mud with it. Then she left it out. When I needed it, I couldn't find it, and I asked her where it was. I briefly shouted at her. My problem is that I shout first and think later. Although their behaviour is generally really good, there is a lack of consideration which I feel it doesn't matter how many times I tell them that they need to tidy up the mess they made, they are not listening to me and won't actually do what they are told until I lose my rag and shout. But is that chicken or egg?
Anyway, if you have done anger management, can you share any tips witch were particularly useful with your kids, and do you think it would be worth while for me?