On Mother's Day this year I went down to see my Mum at her partner's house. I ended up not telling the truth about my plans for the day as whenever my Dad finds out I've spent time with her, he often gets angry with me and sulks, waiting for an apology.
Inevitably he found out and has not spoken to me in months. This also means that his side of the family no longer speak to me.
I have some items belonging to a member of his family which I don't need for my child anymore and I messaged them to arrange to give them back. They then asked me to pass the items through my younger sibling who is 7 years old. I don't feel comfortable with this as I don't think it's fair to bring them into other arguments.
What do I do with the clothes & baby equipment now?? I feel like it's cheeky to ask me to pass them on through someone else instead of collecting them themselves. They have only heard my Dad's side of the story and don't know about all the other times my Dad has made it clear that he doesn't want me to see my Mum. The items have never been mentioned until I brought them up so I doubt that they would miss them.