My disabled grandson has been in a relationship with a woman for about eighteen months. Back story. She is an ugly drunk and in the past she has abused him physically. Police have been called on a couple of occasions by hotel staff who were concerned for his safety. He is very generous and gives her a really good allowance as well as paying all bills. She seems to have calmed down somewhat but doesn't act like a loving partner ie. doesn't spend significant occasions like valentines day or Easter with him. With great effort I can accept his reasons/excuses for this and try to bite my tongue.
Anyway to the latest.
He rings me yesterday afternoon and asks if I will go over as she has gone away and he is stranded as his wheelchair is broken(she knew this) and he is hungry. Of course I went. Fed and watered him and helped him to the bathroom. Although he is comfortably off he doesn't have enough money at the moment to buy another cheap wheelchair and was not able to borrow one last night. I stayed with him until his Mum finished work and was able to bring a pushing chair she keeps for when he stays at hers. While I was there he asked me if I thought she really loved him. I answered No but it didn't matter what I thought but what he felt.
What do wise MNs think. Is there any more I can do. I don't offer opinions on his relationship unless he asks but I am feeling very sad for him.