Being a lone parent I have no one else to ask this.
Backstory ExH had affair with Mum in DD's class claimed he wanted to try again, but admitted in a relate session he was still seeing OW. So I said he had to go which he did. OW spends some of her time with ExH and some with her husband!
Since he left 15 months ago I have out DD always supported and facilitated her relationship with ExH and maintained what we told her that we weren't making each other happy (which I had to do as he wouldn't) even when she screamed at me 'that's not the real reason tell me the real reason'. She is now nearly 10.
Through out this time I have found school events horrible I feel like an intruder and have left in tears on two occasions as I just feel so uncomfortable with the whole situation often with ExH, OW and OW'sH being present sometimes all together! I have tried for 15 months to deal with it,but have reached the end of my tether.
There is another school that I would like DD to move to that her godmother and I looked at together and her godmother thinks it old suit her well. She can stay there till she is 18. DD is keen on the move.
ExH refuses to consider says I am being unreasonable an selfish. Not that it really makes any difference, but I pay the school fees so effectively am paying for the privilege to be miserable when I visit my child's school. So what does every one think?