By nasty I mean school-playground nasty, and bitchy nasty?
I don't know if I attract a higher amount than average nasty people or if I'm just oversensitive to it and overthink it and aren't as able to shrug it off as the next person.
I will give a few examples of people I've come across in the last few years. Just wanted to add too that I do have some lovely friends, and the nasty people seem to be more acquaintances that I can't avoid but that take an instant dislike to me.
Firstly about two years ago I went on a hen weekend. I was friends with the bride and with a few of the other women that went, and there were some women that weren't my friends as such but that I'd met before. One woman, whom I'd met before a couple of times, seemed to take a complete dislike to me once she'd had a few drinks and spent the evening of the first night being horrible to me, talking loudly about me, bitching about me, and pointing at me. I tried to talk to her and ask her what her problem was but she wouldn't talk to me. Everyone else just stood there and let her behave that way, listening to her drivel. I ended up leaving the next morning without saying bye to anyone and just going home as I was so upset and had had such a horrible night. She verbally attacked me totally out of the blue.
Secondly, I introduced a good friend to another good friend of mine at around the same time as the first incident, and all of a sudden neither of them were really talking to me anymore, and they were the best of friends. Fair enough that they got on well and became friends, but it hurt the way they just both dropped me as a friend at the same time. Their children attend the same school as my children and they started doing things such as walking past me on the school run and pretending they hadn't seen me, and if I went and spoke to them both at the school they'd keep looking at each other and smirking. Proper playground stuff. I started ignoring them both and they now both try to talk to me again but I can't forgive the nasty way in which they behaved.
Now I've come across another woman who hasn't been very pleasant about me. My youngest child and her youngest child are best friends at school. We meet up sometimes as the boys like each other and I thought we got on fine. But now three different people have told me she bitches about me behind my back, does impressions of me, and says horrible things. I know she falls out with a lot of people so she is that type of person and she is quite bitchy, but I've been nothing but nice to her and it's really hurtful that she's being nasty about me.
Just wondered if anyone else has had problems with 'nasty' women?