Just after abit of advice as abit confused at the minute.
Been with my husband 10 years and married for 7.Two children. Fairly hectic life with a business to run and various other things so don't really get much time together as he's away Monday-Friday.
He normally goes out of his way to get home but he rang tonight at 6pm saying he couldn't get home. I didn't feel 100% happy with how he was on the phone so checked his Facebook. which I know was wrong to do but it confirmed my suspicions. He'd been talking to a girl who used to live next door and openly asking about her getting in the bath etc and he'd pop round for a coffee and more etc. I feel sick. I txt him and told him he was a f*king k*b and not to speak to me.A few hours later he's appeared at the door and full of apologies.
I don't know what to believe to be honest. He claims its the first and only time and it was just harmless flirting and it wouldn't happen again. How do I know it's the first time? He has been caught talking to his ex before but other than that I've never caught him doing anything else? So confused right now. I have put weight on recently and don't feel 100% confident with myself so this is a total knock :(