my husband is hiring hookers

[girl123]

Hello all, i'm new in here and going out of my mind. My husband of 8 years is hiring hookers in hotels, i have just been diagnosed with chronic lyme disease and i'm 15 weeks pregnant. We have 2 small children. I feel my life is over at this point

Hi there if you repost in Relationships sure you will get plenty of advice x

he says he is sorry and it was the only (2 times). I feel that he has been doing it even before i met him. Right before our marriage i visited him in hotel where he was staying for work and found on his computer searches for escort services for the location right where he was staying.
I'm attractive, and think interested in sex except for the moments that i'm sick (has been ill for awhile with lyme and not knowing it).

I feel that i have to move with my life, but i don't have life-i have no career, i'm 37, ill health, no family in this country. He makes good money but has lost his jog recently (still at work for another 2 months) because of his lies. I'm shattered, and he thinks i should forgive him "it was just a mistake"...

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It doesn't sound like a mistake if he had been doing it for a long time before.

How do you feel about a future with him?

Bumping for you and hope you will get some more informed advice from others.

(((Hugs)))

It's not a mistake, and you don't have to forgive him anything if you don't want to, he can't demand that you do. One important thing you do need to do is to be tested for sexually transmitted diseases just in case. There is a support network in this country for women in your position and if you are on your own with the children, you can claim benefits to live on. There is still time for a career when the children are bigger. You have options to leave or kick him out if that's what you want. Frankly, I wouldn't trust him ever again, as it seems to be an ingrained habit. I wish you well. x