name changed but regular poster..
Tonight l am shattered and numb. DC3 has just called me a fucking bitch and a psycho. She went off on a rant because l asked her to tidy her room which to be honest is a health hazard. I asked for her iphone and she refused to give it to me. There is such venom in her words. I know it sounds bad but not too bad but she was screaming at the top of her lungs l am sure the whole neighbourhood heard her,
I guess she has been spoiled and l have been bending over backwards to help her get a place in college/part time job and voluntary work.
She has done nothing to help herself, l run after her with lifts in the car--have paid for over 30 driving lessons and she still refuses to go out practicing.
Her BD who is home from university for the weekend is horrified at the way she has spoken to me and her DF.
I have washed my hands of her. I asked her to leave and she said l would have to find her a house, she wants to leave college as it is my fault she picked the wrong course, my fault she is putting on weight etc.
I am broken, l can't look at her or talk to her. This has been going on for some months but tonight for me is the last straw.
Oh and she is 18.
I feel so low.