Im very much in love with my boyfriend. He's very thoughtful in most things, but in bed he's starting to become all about himself, his wants and desires. He talks about what he wants to do to me in a sexual way. Wanting to dress up for me etc. I wear sexy lingerie all the time, talk about how I find him attractive. He's says I'm beautiful and sexy, compliments me. But when we are in bed things change. He doesn't touch me unless I guide his hand, then after a few seconds he reverts back to himself. The frustration of this is really getting to me. He's oblivious to my need. He once said have you orgasmed enough, after we had intercourse, I said no I haven't come yet. It felt awkward.
We talk a lot, all the time in fact. We like sexy talk, often talking what we want to do to each other. I'm so confused. Don't know what to do. I've pushed my point out of shear frustration before, only to feel under pressure to orgasm quickly, that's not possible under that kinda pressure.
I'm starting to not want to bother with that side of our relationship.