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Is this unacceptable flirting or pregnancy hormones making me feel rubbish.

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Bluebell55 · 08/09/2013 05:45

Been with hubby for 8yrs- am 8months pregnant- went to his work doo- hubby desperate for me to dance I managed a few- he spent a large chunk of the night dancing with a woman from his office. At one point she said couldn't dance with him cause i was there. He begged me to dance thats when he grabbed this woman again to dance- they looked like they were having fun . It felt bit awkward at times but brushed it off as i couldnt exactly join in felt like a beached whale my ankles were about to give out. The times we danced he was completely attentive and tactile I felt like his wife. Rest of time looked like he was a having fun- so why am feeling not ok with it- I was very quiet on way home- he knew something was up started trying to guess. Don't want to make a big issue cause nothing controversial actually happened- but I nonetheless felt uneasy about it. Just said I was sober-tired and needed to put my feet up.

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cubedmelon · 08/09/2013 06:01

I used to dance with male colleagues for hours at works do's....it didnt mean anything to me or them. I wouldnt treat the dancing alone as anything to worry about. Smile

TVTonight · 08/09/2013 06:49

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Doha · 08/09/2013 07:41

I would have told him exactly how l felt instead of making excuses. He was selfish expecting you to dance a lot due to your pregnancy and also making you feel very uneasy with the frequent dancing and manner of dancing with this co worker.
In fact selfish arse.

Mojavewonderer · 08/09/2013 07:44

Don't worry about it he was just dancing and you know deep down nothing is wrong with it you just feel a little bit upset because you couldn't join in which is perfectly normal. By the time the Xmas do comes along you'll have had the baby and can strut your stuff with hubby all night!

Quiltcover · 08/09/2013 08:47

8 months pregnant is a crappy time. You feel tired, worn out and far from sexy. Your dh should have been more considerate.
You feel uneasy. Why? Who is this other woman? What us she like? Has he mentioned her before?

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