help just split up and need some tlc!!!

[majormug]

just split up with dp after a few years of a rather one sided relationship.... have been left feeling it is all my fault even when i know it isnt.

((( majormug )))

((x)) fom me too, want to taljk about it?

thanks. sat sobbing into my pc wondering how i can bear being a single mum again. my little girl adores him.

oh I'm so sorry mm :( :( :(

HUGS

it will get better, I know that doesn't help right now though :(

((( mm )))

It's true, it probably doesn't help now but it does get easier. By the sounds of it you've done it before and you can do it again. Life's shit at times tho eh??

and while I'm about it ((( essbee ))) not spoken for ages! X X X X X X X X

I have to go to bed now, thinking of you mm x

the hard thing is that i really have bent over backwards....cooked romantic meals.... worn naughty undies.... taken a back seat when he had a lot on etc..... i havebnt had a nice wprd or hug from him for months

awww thank you spacedonkey! going back at you!

MM, it sounds like he is the fool in this. Some blokes just don't know a good thing. So what happened? or would you rather not say? (I complete understand if so)

been with him on and off for 3 years.... basically used me for sex.... then when i met someone else and he thought he was losing me he lost the plot and begged for me back. said this time would be different..... it wa ok for a while then somethign changed.... he changed jobs so he would have more time as a family..... but it never happened. he went off sex.... he has no family and is depressed and i have tried so hard to help him but i have issues aswell and need some support from him too.

What do you mean by he lost the plot?

I'm a little bit lost by the he used you for sex but went off it? So has he called it off I take it? TBH a lot of what you've said sounds like he's a bit controlling??

I've got to go to bed in a sec tho, will you be ok??

got to go try sleep but any moral support would be appreciated.... dont get to computer nuchand this is his!!

sleep is good, take care & night! x

yes will be ok. he went temp mad and followed me..... blubbing to friends.... hounding me etc..... then proceeded to see his ex without teling me, pester my friends to try get gossip and eventually when that stopped he got more depressed as if he had to be stressed about something and thats when he went off sex etc..