Hi i posted on saturday night after finding out more about my husband's affair. He had said to me on saturday that part of the reason he cheated was due to my nagging about his drinking every night and also because i had gone from size 10 to size 12 with 2 stone weight gain. He told me when i asked months ago when i thought he was going off me was it due to my weight gain through taking medication he always said no. But saturday afternoon he said that a part of the reason he cheated was also due to my weight gain and did he not tell me before he would never fuck a fat woman! Well stupid husband does not realise that his e-mails from facebook are still coming to our computer and i have now found proof that he is flirting and chatting up another married woman (the OW he had his 5 week fling with has stayed with her husband) so now to find this last night my head is all over the place again. I have thrown him out and its 3 weeks tomorrow. The good news that i got today was a temporary job as a classroom assistant for 2 weeks and i am so happy for this as it will get me out of the house and not moping about. Maybe it will help me to get the permanent job thats coming up and i can put 2 fingers up to my husband. Just want to say i hope this will be the staart of something good for me.