sorry if this is tmi but would a man notice if a condom split

[mrspicklepants]

Me and dp rely on condoms for protection due to other methods not agreeing with us....but I noticed afterwards last night things felt a bit wet down there seein as we'd used protection so anyway I looked in the bin today and there was the condom all wrapped up but broken?? This can't have happened afterwards can it? And surely dp would have noticed and should have said somethin?

Yes if I were going to take map earlier the better. This happened Friday would need be tomorrow. Its complicated can't really explain more but will try and talk to him thanks for replies!

You know I find it genuinely baffling that it would be ok to be pregnant and proceed to have a child, and yet the two adults involved cannot have a conversation about their birth control without lying.

How can you have children with a person and yet not be able to have that basic level of honesty and openness in a relationship?

I totally agree TSSDNCOP- happy enough to raise a new life with this man but not happy to ask him if he knew the condom split!

OP the 'complicated' part that you aren't sharing could be perceived as drip feeding or not giving the full story.