My friend is a MNetter from time to time, so I'm not going to give too many details, but it is obvious that all is not well in her marriage.
From things she says she is obviously desperately worried about him leaving, and I'm not expert but I don't think she is being paranoid. (Recently he has lost weight, had eyebag surgery & teeth veneers (previously of the one old jumper worn all weekend type), bought a sports car, coming in at 10pm after going out to lunch etc.
It is like he is working his way through some midlife crisis handbook). There are a couple of other (financial) reasons that she has to be worried about also that make it seem like he might be making other plans...
I nipped round to see her this afternoon and she had obviously spent the morning crying- I asked and she said trying to set up her new phone had got her really frustrated, so obviously doesn't want to talk about it directly to me atm.
I'm not sure if there is anything I could be/should be doing.
If anyone has been in this position, did any of your friends see it coming, and if so did any of them say anything? Would you have wanted them to?
She has been a lovely friend to me and I'd like to do my best by her.