I hadn't really had a relationship before meeting STBXH. We were together 9 years, lots of EA and VA and the divorce is almost through. If I'm honest, I'd bonded really well with his DDs and I think would have left years ago, but I didn't want to lose contact with them and kept hoping it would get better. We were ill-suited from the start really-he is 21 years older than me, different interests etc. I wonder now if I ever really loved him or just thought this was what a relationship should be like.
Just finished a brief fling as it just didn't feel right and my head is still all over the place as to what I want.
I am 32 and don't think I have ever met anyone I just 'click' with. Is that what it should feel like? Fear is my most overwhelming feeling when I think about meeting someone, but if it was the right person, would it just fall into place?
How DO you know if you love someone?