To cut a long story short me and DH haven't got on great for a while we have stressful jobs two small children etc like others our lives are hectic and we have no time together. That said I'm getting so hacked off with being told that i am being horrible to him all the time. Feel like i walk on eggshells. This weekend was typical, he was tired and miserable and moody with the kids i tried to help him then my patience wears thin feels like i have another child to look after sometimes. Then we row then he says sorry he is just feeling sensitive or ill or tired then tonight he brings it all up again and tells me how difficult i am to live with and its me who makes him unhappy etc. So i am confused don't know what he really thinks when he keeps changing his story just fed up being told how horrible i am when i am doing my best to cope with everything. I know I'm not mean to him i get frustrated and nag a bit but also do lots for him and wouldn't say i was any better or worse than most wives in my situation. Anyone experienced anything similar?