best friend and bf don't get on

[redjellybean]

My best friend and boyfriend had a falling out and it keeps playing on my mind.
They fell out basically because me and my bf had an argument about something (can't remember what!) and when they were chatting he mentioned this to her, insinuating that we might end up breaking up over it and he was worried. But he told her not to say anything to me as he didn't want to make things worse. Being my friend, she wanted to know if I was ok so did and asked me if I was ok. He's annoyed at her for telling me. It's been ages and I've asked him to just get over it and make up. He's not interested. She doesn't really think she has done anything wrong. I can't talk about each of the other to the other which is hard. I want my friend and bf to get on. Is this silly? Should I not care? I do. Does it really matter?

I think that is a bit if a reach Bran. From the op it says her friend asked how he was, he said not great as was worried after he had had an argument. He then realised he shouldn't have said that and asked her not to mention things as he knew it was wrong to share with her.

Not everyone has sinister motives behind their interactions with others. Sometimes people are just thoughtless!

I think so too bran.

That thing about the wedding is not silly at all OP .

He was testing her loyalty to you, she 'failed' and he acted the injured party. Two years on and he still can't bear to let you talk about her. That is some grudge. Do you have a sister? Some men are wary of 3rd party "interference" and very early on like to ring fence their gf from "bad" influences.