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MIL rant

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emkaren · 10/02/2004 20:35

Just need to have a quick rant about my MIL. When she sees us she's very keen to carry dd2 (6 months) around, which is great and much appreciated - but she just doesn't know when to stop. When dd2 cries and it's quite obvious that she wants to go back to me MIL insists on trying to calm her down - just to prove that she can do it! She manages it sometimes - but only because dd2 will succum to sheer exhaustion after all that crying! I don't know what to do about it, short of tearing dd2 out of her arms, but I don't want to upset MIL as she's great in many respects, and dh thinks it's her prerogative as a grandmother to be like this. But it drives me crazy!!!

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Coddy · 10/02/2004 20:36

She probably thinks she is helping
adopt a pathetic look and say

" I aknow I am a weak willed mother but I cant stand hearing her cry without cuddling her can i have her back?" and all will be well

handlemecarefully · 11/02/2004 08:37

Sit her down - tell her how much you appreciate having a MIL like her..how it's nice that you get along so well, how its great to see her doting so much on her granddaughter...however, there's just this one thing.....(and then go into the explanation that when dd2 is crying and clearly wants her mum, that you would like to have her back at that point). If you've lavished praise on your MIL just prior to making this point, I doubt she'll take offence.

AussieSim · 11/02/2004 20:39

My MIL and FIL are the same. I have never said anything, I just walk up to them and take him. It is cute now he is older he holds his arms out so I can lift him away.

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