Stupid argument, think its over

[crazykat]

H and I have had a stupid argument over nothing really. It was a pattern of every weekend he'd seem to find something to argue about - usually something to do with DSD. I told him if it didn't stop we were over as it wasn't fair to our DC. It stopped for about a year.

Started again last weekend, the first time DSD decided she was coming in two months. Apparently I was in a mood just coz I wanted to watch a tv programme. Tonight he's thrown his wedding ring at me.

I'm so sad right now I don't know what to do. I can't do this again but I feel so sad.

Sorry, I can't offer great advice like some of the ladies on here but sorry he's being such an arse.

Is there anyway he'd go for any kind of coupled counselling to try and figure out what's wrong?

I wouldn't want to put up with being treated like that either.

What was his usual pattern of behaviour after an argument? Would he use it as a reason to storm off / stop speaking to you? I wonder if it was a selfish way of getting more alone time at weekends.

Did the other blow-ups coincide with his daughter coming to visit? I'm guessing not, if it was every weekend.

Well, you told him if it didn't stop you would have to end the marriage for the sake of your dc. I think that reason still stands - I would take him throwing the ring at you as evidence that he does too. Not to mention evidence that he's a tosser who you shouldn't be around, if the ring could have hit you.