Hello all
Please bare with me this is going to be a long one end of march I picked up my husbands phone to put a alarm on and when the screen lit up it was full of messages between my husband and someone else. The next day we were due to go on holiday and for kids sake I went. Thus ensued three weeks of hell whereby we were suppose to be sorting out our marriage....yeah right he kept talking to this person and it came to a head one sat when she was texting me vile things and my h didn't rebuke anything she said. I kicked him out as he would not give her up even though he said he had so he moved in with her he left me and our four young children after nearly 10 years of marriage 6weeks later I said that I would consider couples therapy ECG if he moved to his parents or he could stay where he was....well he moved to his parents couples therapy commenced and we were finally sorting out what went wrong that led to the affair he changed his numbers ECt but I don't think that has stopped him from having any contact with her As he works in the area she lives ECt and she has been driving round checking where he is. I don think the affair is still going on but he lies or tells half truths so easily. Basically I thought it was going ok i was starting to feel secure again we were having fun messing around he told me frequently that he loved me bought me flowers talked to me which we had stopped doing but then a week ago it turned up at our house as h had moved home it was banging on my door screaming and swearing calling h names and all this in front of his children.he never did anything he stood there didn't comfort me or his children who were scared have called him an emotionless robot before but omg he really is now he won't say I love you he kisses me differently again he won't have cuddles but when I say what's wrong he says nothing we are sorting things out I feel at the end o my tether he cheated on me so why does he get to be quiet and moody maybe I have made things to easy for him was I wrong to take him back and try again its like he does not care how I feel or how he makes me feel I think he thinks wow two women fighting for me so he parades around like a cock he finds it funny while it makes me feel sick I just don't know how to get through to him I feel miserable Nd sick thinking I have made the wrong choice he found it so easy to walk out on me what if he does it again do I keep trying and see where things go or do I just cut loose now