Title says it all really, not sure how much longer I can deal with my life (that sounds a bit dramatic I realise!) have made various previously on here and have been advised that perhaps I should consider leaving DH, am now getting to that point.
Have a bit of a screwed up childhood with no real father figure so am not entirely sure whether DH's behaviour is normal for a guy or whether he's just plain lazy and taking the piss so my list below are some of the ongoing issues we have, let me know your thoughts;
Spends most of his time on his phone - playing games apparently but does use twitter and foursquare alot
Doesn't do any housework at all (we both work full time, i work longer hours as I am self employed as well). He may put a wash on but invariably forgets he has put it on and it stays there. He does usually put the bins out and recycling (but then leaves bins outside till someone else brings them in.)
We have two children, DD is 16, DS is 9. Doesn't do anything with them, has no patience with them. DS more so (as DD now answers back). Occasionally does something with DS who then of course keeps asking for more playtime but DH then says no.
Leaves stuff everywhere - beer cans, food wrappers, had marmalade for breakfast globs of marmalade left on worktop. Eats dinner and will just leave plate etc on table. If loads dishwasher loads of stuff left on worktop he 'doesn't see'.
Doesn't do numbers - despite taking DS to him drum lessons for two years he still texts me to ask 'what time is it' (DD and I were out doing the shopping). Had a right go at me saying I should know he doesn't do numbers and why should I expect him to remember. Also fell out about something else date/time related but can't remember what it is
Says has made the bed, except when I get in and he then comes to bed (hours later) he decides he hasn't and yanks sheet across (always been last person out of bed in morning makes it)
Leaves clothes/shoes/etc on bathroom floor when showers
Don't get me started on toilet rolls
Regularly find 11 wet towels on bedroom floor. Doesn't pick them up takes new ones every day.
Sex - said didn't want to have sex as I wasn't 'nice enough to him' after a month of being sickeningly nice apparently he is 'not in the right mind set'.
Can't guarantee he will remember to feed DS if I go out (happened before) Then moans that I expected him to remember.
That will do for starters. Could you put up with this? Been married for nearly 19 years, MIL did everything for him when he was at home. We now live next door to PIL. Thank you