I read a lot of MN
I do have to admit it helped me come out a couple of times from difficult situation
I just would like to rise awarness about something
There is so many post
about cheating affairs and OW a lots of dilemas what to do in that kind of events
Long time ago my friend met a guy
They started going out together and bla bla bla
She was a bit confused about whole relationship but liked the guy so things went on
Then three four months on her guy started acting strange and finally he come to conclusion that he decided to come back to his ex love her etc
She did felt a bit sad but then she got phone call from his ex
When she told me the story she said it was the best thing that happend to her
They even met
Apparently the guy with his ex they never broke up
And my friend put her self in not very pleasant situation
Cos she belived different well that guy told her diffrent and she would never brake someone 's relationship
It was't nice experience for her but tough she should seen all the red flags I suppouse
People unfortunatelly lies often and there is so many weirdos out there
IMO if you do think there is OW maybe it is a rith thing to do to contact and ask
But the other side of the problem is
My another friend come to me almost in tears
She was regular visitor in park with her DC she is friendly outgoing person a bit of tomboy which often put her in trouble
So one day she seen a guy with a boy and dog
Because of the dog and her DC they started conversation and their kids played for half an hour or so
And then a few days later a women approached my friend
She started saying that the guy already got wife etc but what acctually was even more sad she sugested that she personally is a very good "close" friend of that guy
My friend "went red" cos she have not done anything at all
And some people would jump to a conclussion with out any reason
Well it will still clear the atmosphere a bit
It is good when peole are being honest otherwise situations like above can complicate life
Forgive me long post but Im curious about yours opinions