Some of you may remember me or not as i've posted a few times on here about my ex partner and our turbulent relationship. Well he has finally moved out after months of hell and i feel like a weight has been lifted, it was many of you who made me realise his behaviour was abusive and i had to be strong and end it. I know it is early days but i seem to be coping fine and am so much happier (he even noticed himself, that i havent been this happy in ages). So it just shows how much he actually brought to the table in reality. The only thing im sad about is that he is sad and doesnt seem to be taking it so well, but he has had a wake up call i think. He is still holding out hope of a reconcilliation as has probabaly realised what he's lost and is now talking about getting counsilling, bit late for that in my opinion... anyway thanks to all those who made me realise i wasnt going mad and i would be happier without him, im sure the kids will benefit from it once they readjust to the situation. Im not even worried about being on my own or finding anyone else, just happy for it to be me and the dc's for now :).