I have type 1 bipolar now 18 months ago I became very ill and fully believed my partner intended to rape me, and that my friend was a angel this ended in me sleeping with my friend on two occassions.
Now I've pretty much had my life on hold since trying to repair the damage to my marriage. But recently I've started going out with my best friend who is male and dh doesn't trust me. He complains that the.cleaning is not done on the days me and my friend meet up. He first complained atthe amount of text I was sending my friend who is recently bereaved and suffering depression. So I cut those down even though my friend really needs me.
Next he complained that I don't go out with him anymore which due to a severe sn dd is true so I arranged some nights out. Next he complained I was going out with friends both male and female too much so I cut this down.
Finally he accuses me of cheating so I offer him to go through my texts. He is upset when I go out with female friends but not as much as my male best friend
I want to fix this but I'm not prepared to sit in the house the rest of my life. Also I've made compromises and he's still unhappy please advise me. I know I am the guilty party here and I'm very sorry for what happened I came clean of my own accord if that helps at all.