It's not normal to move out of a house and for it to not be noticable is it? I've taken my few books off the bookshelves and the same with DVDs but they are swamped by ex-Ps 200 dvds and books. He doesn't watch or read them.
I moved out into the spare room and am surrounded by his degree stuff (he's 34 FFS). He says he cant have them in his room as it affects his sleep but it's fine for me to sleep with it shoe horned in the box room.
The one food cupboard we have ia filled with tins and bits that will NEVER be eaten. Same with fridge and freezer. Absolutely chokka. I've been fighting for some space, any space for 3 years.
When I rented my own flat (he kept living in a house share for 6 months) he took it upon himself to move everything into my flat. My small flat was suddenly full of shit furniture and books I'd never seen before.
I'm so sad right now. No wonder I feel like I don't belong here.