I've been married three years, together four. Have one ds nearly 2.
I'm just not sure that I can put up with this any more. My husband and I both have quite stressful full time jobs and yet I still do all of the housework, shopping, cooking and financial organisation/household admin etc.
I'm knackered all the time. My husband has had problems in the past with addiction to painkillers. He promised he'd stopped and I believed him, then about a year later (recently) I found his stash. Once again, he was full of apologies but I think this has pretty much dissolved the last remnants of trust and respect I had for him. He says he loves me, and he is a good father. What should I do? Leave him? Persevere? I guess I should talk to him first, but whenever I've tried before, he just looses his temper and we get nowhere. Any advice would be truly appreciated! Thank you!!!