Saving a marriage when you...

[blundermum13]

Get on some of the time but bicker a lot and are more like friends than a married couple.

Haven't had sex since conceiving youngest child over 2 years ago

Sleep in separate bedrooms

Believe OH is kind person and great with the kids, but has drug and alcohol dependency that he won't address (though admits he has a problem)

But you're starting to feel resentful and thinking this isn't what marriage should be like.

Any hope?

so he's a druggie and an alchy and you don't have sex.

sounds like a shitty relationship tbh

You have to ask yourself do you deserve more out of life than that or is that really the best there is for you? I think you deserve more but its what you think that matters. Do you still love him?

its not really a marriage is it - its just two people living together

If that's ok with you then fine, but if you want a proper,supportive loving and sexual relationship then no - its not worth saving.