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What do you call your dp?

18 replies

CarmenH · 09/06/2006 14:43

Just wondering what anyone else calls their dp?

I feel that boyfriend sounds really teenagery and temporary but don't like partner either as just always think of business partners and think that it sounds a bit not right for us in some indefinable way. People sometimes assume we are married and i don't always correct them if they say husband/wife although obviously this isn't true.

what do other mnetters use?

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Next · 09/06/2006 14:45

partner though I kind of cringe when saying it. Agree that boyfriend sounds like a 'living apart' sort of relationship.

'Spouse' makes me cringe even more.

Or significant other - psml

notanotter · 09/06/2006 14:46

ashamed to say i say 'hubby' Shock
wish there was a word partner sounds knobby...its not fair - shall we invent our own carmen and get it in the oxford english!!!!

Toothache · 09/06/2006 14:46

At the moment?.... the first derrogatory, sweary word I can think of.

alligator · 09/06/2006 14:47

t'other 'alf is very common round here but I dont like that either.

He calls me 'the missus' sometimes so I've started to refer to him as 'im indoors as a revenge (Hes a SAHD).

Next · 09/06/2006 14:47

think it starts with a 'c' and ends with 't' toothache

alligator · 09/06/2006 14:53

But they are very useful and quite nice too I think Next Grin

Next · 09/06/2006 14:54

sometimes!!

MrsBigD · 09/06/2006 14:54

depends on my mood Grin

Generally his Name when talking to others.
When talking to him he's got a nickname

alligator · 09/06/2006 14:55

true true at certain times of the month they are a pain literally

SKYTVADICT · 09/06/2006 14:55

The Other Half mostly but do wish there was a better name. Not sure what he calls me, I will ask him later

southeastastra · 09/06/2006 15:53

i hate partner too - sometimes just say husband its easier

CarmenH · 09/06/2006 16:58

Having recently read your update Sadtoothache can understand entirely where you are coming from but not quite what I was thinking of.

Keen to invent new word as agree partner just sounds knobby and kind of fake. Don't mind other half actually, know a couple of people who use that. Could always call him my sexy lover Blush.

May suggest to dp that we get married just so we can say husband and wife without feeling like somone will jump out from behind us shouting liar liar bums on fire!

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DumbledoresGirl · 09/06/2006 17:00

What about commonlaw husband? I never really understood what that term meant. Civil partnership is another one that makes me smile. Do people enter into uncivil partnerships?

CarmenH · 09/06/2006 17:09

They may not enter into them but the often end up in them iyswim dumbledore

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adozenroses · 09/06/2006 17:13

My dh's friend calls his partner 'the missus' which sounds friendly, I think!! Not sure what she calls him, though.

I call my dh by his last name. I always have, I don't think I've ever called him my husband and I very rarely use his first nameGrin

southeastastra · 09/06/2006 17:20

thinking about it, it really annoys me, letters from school addressed to mrs.. phone calls can i speak to mrs.. argh . call my dp at work 'your misses is on the phone' or worse 'doris'

SowOffended · 09/06/2006 17:26

Pig obviously.

Wink
jellyjelly · 09/06/2006 18:19

Shithead unless he comes home from the pub soon.

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