Have namechanged for this but am a regular.
I have been with my DH for 15 years and married for 7. I am pregnant with DC1.
I love my DH very much and we have always had a good relationship. He has a very stressful job and has always used alcohol as a way to wind down after work. I haven't had a problem with this up until now. He's started drinking more heavily and will often sit up after I've gone to bed.
Last night he drank more than he normally would but went off to work OK this morning. This morning I picked up his laptop to look something up on the internet and while I was using it, I noticed a pop up from Skype saying a woman's name had come online. I opened up Skype and it's clearly a webcam porn thing. There were just a couple of messages between them and they hadn't Skyped as far as I could tell from the recent history. I know he has a Skype account but this was a separate one he'd opened last night.
I don't have an issue with porn, particularly. I don't use it or like it but I don't have a massive problem with him using it. I do, however, have a massive issue with him having direct contact with someone.
I have no intention of leaving him over this so please no LTBs, however, how do I address this with him?