Snap chat, anyone know what it is and how it works!?

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Just that for now

I've got it in my phone and iPad, both thanks to my children. Never used it.

Hope you're ok OP

anyone around for a chat?

What have you found, OP?

The snapchat thing he told me he'd sent one photo, his score thing is 78

Bit of digging, long story short been saying stuff like this to people online:

You have beautiful lips by the way.

You are pretty.

I prefer the pink one, shows your figure off nicely :-)

Your gorgeous, being a single parent wouldn't put me off :-)

Oh course people are attracted to black girls, I'm a white guy and find black girls very attractive.

These are all responses on yahoo answers, this on its own wouldn't have necessarily been a deal breaker but there's been so many lies and shit like this over the yrs and I think that's the last straw!

I'm rambling sorry

Hope you are ok OP, I am sure there are a few people around for a chat!

I'm here, OP. Hope you're okay. What else have you found?

Sorry to hear about what you have found. I totally understand why you are so upset, it is not normal for someone in a relationship to be talking to other women like that.

If the trust is not there then you need to seriously think about what happens next.

Sorry x post. He sounds very sly and definitely acting inappropriately IMO, I would be beyond furious if that was my DH. Are you going to confront him?

The next one which has really got my back up is difficult to explain, bare with me I will try to make sense.

Prob going 2yrs back I read a message on his facebook off his friend and his friend was complaining that his girlfriend had, had a strop about him having his ex's on Facebook.

My 'D'P replied oh I got 2 of mine on here and the missus ain't happy about it.

Now I had no idea he did have ex's on there so how could I have been unhappy about something I didn't know about! When confronted he said he was just agreeing to make him feel better and there wasn't ex's on his.

Well surprise, surprise that was another lie. In response to another stupid question on stupid fucking yahoo answers he put "current partners can feel threatened f your still talking to an ex. My girlfriend went mental when she found an ex in my facebook friends list. I haven't unfriended her and have no intention of doing so. My girlfriend has learnt to deal with it lol"

That's got to be the most disrespectful and hurtful thing he's said in a long fucking time. I still have no idea who this ex even is!

Oh and note I'm referred to as his girlfriend, the 6yr old engagement ring can go in the bin then yes!

He knows my user name on here and I don't give a fuck if he reads this, you've hurt me for the last time prick!

You can do so much better than him. He sounds horrible, to be honest.

What are your reasons for staying with him?

Because he's the only person I've ever loved, and clearly I'm an idiot! The first time he lied should have been the last but instead I've wasted 9yrs of my life!

He's the FIRST person you loved. He really shouldn't be the last. You can't live with this sort of behaviour; it's disrespectful and harmful to you.

And seriously, if he loved you as you deserve and want to be loved, he wouldn't be doing this. The fact he's doing this shows you what he feels.

It's not a waste.
Onward and upwards,
And Good Luck.

In fifty years whenever its the King or Queen's Birthday, you'll think 'this was the day I kicked wasteofspace out- I would never have had all these happy years if I hadn't found out!'

Exactly the way I see it, there's been so many more examples of this over the yrs, I thought he'd learn!

Sat here looking 5month old DD who he asked for! Thinking what I did to deserve being treated like this

OP, re those Yahoo answers - are those the things he's said to people? Have you found those lines online by his name/nickname?

He is so disrespectful and deceitful. You've done nothing to deserve being treated like this. You and your DD deserve so much better. Please don't cling onto this relationship because he is the only man you have ever loved. There are decent men out there who won't treat you like this. Not suggesting you jump into another relationship now, obviously. You and your DD would be much happier without this man.

If you have been engaged for 6 years, what has stopped you getting married in that time? Has he been stalling?

Imperial, yeah a bit of digging and I found what's he's said to others. I haven't even looked at all of his replies because I can't face it right now.

I have DD5 as well as 5month DD, we've never had the money to get married but he never seemed interested when I talked about it.

I'm not going to rush a decision, we're going away on sat and he has no money to move out, but with him here I can't get a single person claim set up so I'm stuck!