it went too far

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My friend have done a stupid mistake
She openly talk about her problems with other person
And now it went so bad and moved to her rl

All of the sudden
Hundreds if lies sad coments all around her
Her situation was very bad and rocky but there wasnt any phisical violence and and she is quiet happy and brave that she end up her not healthy ralationship with her ex
She is totally shocked because she is not the guilty one
Visits from ss even she is the Best Mum consider circumstances

We trying to tell her there is nothing really she can do now but she is disappointed
I am personally

Surprised that nobody reacted on time to stop it
But I guess its not really possible at the moment cos damage has been done
So I supouse nothing else I can advise her ??

huh? I think you need to be more specific

Doesn't make sense.

My Friend is good person so luckly she will have to manage with everything what happend
And dont take me wrong she is gratefull for the others support but also she is terrified about how far it went
A real eye opener

My conclussion is how easy is to destroy life
Of somebody who dont even know how to defend herself
Its like kicking somebody who already is on the ground

again huh? if you are going to start a thread you actually need to give people an idea of what happened, not just refer to a mystery incident

You need to explain what you're actually talking about rather than waffling on about how your friend is a good person. Without knowing what she did, it is impossible for anyone to comment more.

She talked about being in an abusive relationship, the person she confided in told social services and now she's getting help?

Have a good think about whether this is actually a good thing

Why isn't it a good thing. Again we cannot form an opinion as we don't know the details.

Are you saying this friend was in a very bad relationship (although not physically violet), probably an abusive relationship, which is now over? That she confided in someone and now Social Services have felt it appropriate to take an interest and question her parenting?

She may be disappointed and feel that she is being 'kicked when she's down' but Social Services have to check things out because - putting it bluntly - there are too many little kids and women dying at the hands of abusive partners and exes.

Have her children been taken from her? Why is her life destroyed? Why can't she defend herself?